If you think the Law of Attraction gives YOU what you WANT, you need your head read!
The 2006 movie The Secret and its 2020 sequel, The Secret Dare to Dream, both by Rhonda Byrne introduced the world to using the Law of Attraction [LoA]. The 2006 movie featured many international gurus (most being either American or Canadian) and when distilled down into its most basic nuts and bolts, what they taught you as being the “easy peasy three step secret” to using the Law of Attraction, was Ask, Believe, Receive and that this would give you Happiness, Health and Wealth! What was glaringly missing from their pearls of wisdom, was everything that the earthed, incredibly unsexy numerology number 4 stands for, which is hard work, focus, planning, discipline, law and order, justice, systems, processes, procedures, persistence, patience, practicality and all importantly, no short cuts! Much as it pains us to tell you this, here is the shocking truth: most of what you have been taught about using the Law of Attraction by the sell-from-stage prosperity gurus, does not work!
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Using the Law of Attraction properly…
Using the law of attraction properly demands so much more from you than asking, believing, and then hey presto, receiving. It is also much more than just simply leveraging your infinite mind power and aligning yourself with and to the powers of positive thinking. If you are more than merely curious as to how to set about properly using the law of attraction then you will want to read and study this comprehensive case-study substantiated article published in a leading human potential research and development website, 365 Pin Code.
Pause for a moment and ponder on this!
So, the law of attraction as it is currently taught by metaphysical practitioners, life coaches, LoA numerologists and so forth teaches you that you need to crystal clear on what it is that you want, then you have to ask for it, then you visualise actually having it and then you release it to “its journey”, nurturing it with constant positivity (no doubts whatsoever!) until it miraculously pops up as a physical manifestation in your world, much like what happens with seeds that you have planted in the soil. Everything about using the law of attraction resides with belief and positive thinking, never once entertaining the notion that the desired outcome might not happen. This is such a sexy sell, because tragically, most people are impractical and lazy and so the moment they hear of this easy peasy health, wealth and happiness solution, they are sold on it, hook, line and sinker. Thing is, for everything in this universe of ours to exist, and especially here on earth, which is our physical domain, there must be opposites. Peace cannot exist without war. Love cannot exist without there being hatred, the left cannot exist without the right and the intangible heavens above cannot exist without the tangible earth below. Given this, aren’t the myopically driven notions of positive thinking and mind power fundamentally flawed? Of course they are!
Replace positive thinking with critical thinking
Positive thinking has its place, because that if you will, is the positive polarity of your success puzzle. Negative thinking, in the shape of the well-placed doubt, also has its place, as the negative polarity of your success puzzle. Therefore if you want to really learn how to start using the law of attraction, you would do well to bullet the very North-American prosperity paradigm “just always be a positive person” out of your head and replace it with much a deeper scientific understanding that encourages you to “always be a balanced person” who strives to develop their critical thinking capabilities!
Positive Thinking will not stop you from drowning in Dangerous Flood Waters
Your house is surrounded by flood waters. You are marooned inside the house. As the waters rapidly rise you realise you have no choice other than to climb on to the top of the roof which is the house’s highest point. You are nervous and scared but your law of attraction life coaching courses taught you that you must always stay positive. You see the danger, yet you choose to not acknowledge it because you are a tremendously positive little bunny, and everything always works to your advantage! The waters continue to climb. You do nothing. What you do not know, is that the volume of flood water that is on its way from upstream, is of such a magnitude that it will rise to the level of 8 feet above your house’s roof. You are 5 foot 6 inches tall. Do the maths. You are screwed. Even though you stayed positive to the very end, you drown. That is the danger of unbalanced positive thinking and given what The Secret and other LoA based initiatives has taught, this is how 99% of people will foolishly go about using the law of attraction.
You do NOT attract what you WANT, you attract what YOU must LEARN
Get your head beyond the flashy red Ferrari or the magnificent beach house, or the lifestyle of your dreams. Those results happen when you have diligently and persistently applied yourself in the right way, when you have honoured your karmic debts and your karmic lessons etc. BTW, if have no idea what I am referring to here karma wise, then please do talk to me because you need ALL your numerology numbers properly mapped and interpreted by a seasoned professional and that’s what I and my team at Numerology For Women do. We specialise in connecting you with your mathematically designed authentic self. Once you know and understand exactly who you are on a numerical level, there will be no stopping you so long as you maintain and balance, critical thinking driven mindset. In conclusion then, The REAL secret to The Secret, is work. Hard work done intelligently and according to a well thought through plan which has multiple test-and-learn scenarios factored into it that will keep you on track and help get your head out of Cuckooland’s clouds.
If this LoA article really got you to start thinking into NEW results, and if you are keen to understand how to Think and Grow Rich in an ecological way that aligns with your Intelligent Mathematical Blueprint (IMB), then you will love the hundreds of other paradigm busting articles we have published, many of which I have co-authored.